Seven Habits of One
Highly Effective Person
The way people die can sometimes tell us how they
lived. Jesus died forgiving His enemies, redeeming a thief, caring for loved
ones, overcoming the powers of darkness, confessing human need, finishing His
assignment, and trusting His Father in death. What a way to die!
FATHER, FORGIVE THEM, FOR THEY KNOW NOT WHAT
THEY DO.
"Yes they do, Jesus. They're killing you, an innocent man. Why aren't you
angry? Why aren't you trying to get even? It's hard for me to forgive, Jesus,
especially when it's unjust, especially when I'm right. Nothing angers me like
injustice. But you forgave, and you hurt more than I ever have. Would you help
me to forgive like you do? Jesus, help me to live as you died. Give me grace
to forgive without strings, the way you did."
When East Germany asked forgiveness of Israel, they responded, "The shame of
the action cannot be removed." But Jesus can remove any shame, even the shame
of killing Him. He removed it as they were doing it-and He'll remove your
shame, too. Just ask Him.
TODAY YOU SHALL BE WITH ME IN PARADISE.
"Jesus, You take the unlikeliest people with you to heaven, people who
sure don't deserve to go there. Oh yeah, no one does. But I haven't stolen
like he did-well, except time, or friends, or a reputation. I've stolen with
words as well as actions. You came to seek and save the lost, and did it even
at your last hour."
The power of Christ's life and death is seen in
His dying moments. Salvation is extended to a criminal, who has nothing to
contribute before he passes into eternity. But he will still shine with the
stars of heaven and he will praise the blood of the Lamb. Better people will
go to hell because of their refusal to do what he did. What faith! "Remember
me..." And what a response of faith: "Today you will be with me..."
I can picture him going to heaven's gate.
Imagine Peter asking, "How can you come in here? You're a thief." He would
respond, "Jesus said I could." "Really, when did He say that?" "Just today, a
few hours ago." He was a thief, an undeserving one. But at his dying moment he
took more than he had ever taken before as a thief-he took eternal salvation.
We will meet him in heaven, thanks to Jesus. One blasphemed, the other
believed. What a difference for eternity.
WOMAN, BEHOLD YOUR SON. BEHOLD, YOUR MOTHER!
"Jesus, when I get a headache, I don't think of other people much, even
those close to me. I think about myself. Sometimes when I hurt I get grouchy.
I feel that others should wait on me, take care of me, be considerate of me.
How is it that at the time of your greatest need you are thinking of others,
like your mother? She was weeping for you, and you were looking out for her.
The unique Son of God, you were also the son of Mary. You were a good Son.
What love you had for people, for your family, for your mother! Put within me
your heart of compassion for people, for the needy, for our loved ones."
MY GOD, MY GOD, WHY HAVE YOU FORSAKEN ME?
"You're a reject. You came into this world a reject. Your birth was called
illegitimate. Your parents were poor, and so were you. You were an itinerant
preacher. The hometown folks received you, until you preached your first
sermon. Then they tried to throw you over a cliff. Hardly a welcome. You came
to your own and they didn't receive you. 'You were despised and rejected by
men.' The rejection continued at the trials. You were worse than Barabbas, a
criminal and worse than a criminal. But you knew it was going to happen. You
had told your disciples that 'the Son of man (would) suffer man things and be
rejected by the elders.' The worst had to be when God rejected you. You had
never known even the slightest moment of separation. Now you are condemned,
even by the Scripture: "Anyone who is hung on a tree is under God's curse"
(Deuteronomy 21:23). You had only known God's favor. Now you feel His curse.
You knew no sin. You became sin itself for us."
What a battle! Hand to hand combat with the
powers of darkness. The Lord lays on Him the iniquity of us all. He is being
stricken by God. The Father is beating up His own Son, who feels the agony and
cries out, not to His Father, but to God. There is no darker hour in human
history. No place is He more a representative of the human, fallen race. His
cry, "My God, my God, why...," is the most wrenching cry of the universe.
Unspeakable horror, undiminished shame. Jesus paid a high price for our sin.
Consider it the next time you think Jesus doesn't care, or the next time you
feel the need to indulge yourself. No one understands suffering like Jesus.
What great sorrow! What great love!
I THIRST.
It wasn't until He looked to the needs of others that He said, "I am
thirsty." He dealt with the thief's thirst for salvation before He asked for a
drink. He drank when all things were accomplished. In the heat of battle, one
cannot yell, "Time out." The demands of the fight far outweigh the desires of
the flesh. That Jesus now confesses thirst is not only a sign of thirst. For
John it is an indication that the battle is over. And He said it in
fulfillment of scripture.
At no point in the conflict did Jesus ever lose
control. Caiaphas did-and tore his robes in anger. Peter did-and swore his
denial of having ever known Jesus. Pilate did-and tried to wash a guilty
conscience away with water. The crowd did-and shouted, "Crucify him," like
bloodthirsty dogs tearing at their victim. But Jesus, the victim, never lost
it. He knew what was happening all the time and what He needed to do. History
was on schedule. The king was about to be crowned. And He said, "I thirst." He
was the Son of God and Son of Man. His confession of need encourages me to be
human, to be honest about my needs.
The one who created Niagara Falls, who made the lakes in the Rockies, is now
dehydrated. He had been preparing to give eternal water to the thirsty, and
now He grows thirsty in the process. He had poured out His soul to death. He
deserved to be thirsty.
He had just cried out, "My God, my God." That was the worst kind of
dehydration, the most awful exposure, the exposure to the elements of darkness
without the help of God. But He was also facing the physical exposure. The
soldier understood Him and gave Him some of the sour wine, the cheap stuff
given to soldiers as part of their rations. Earlier it had been offered to
Jesus and He had refused it. Why now? Because He was about to die, His work
was over. He did not want to be drugged earlier, because He chose to be in
full awareness of what He was doing. He needed to "taste death for everyone."
When He received the wine, He gained sufficient strength to cry out.
IT IS FINISHED.
He didn't say, "I am finished." He didn't die a victim but a victor. He
finished it all. That means that there is nothing left for you and me to do.
"There is therefore now no condemnation."
He accomplished it all-single-handedly. It had
started at the dawn of creation. Satan, who had led a rebellion in heaven,
then convinced Adam and Eve to rebel. The devil wounded the heel of Jesus, but
Jesus stepped on his head. Everything on the other side of the cross would be
the mop-up campaign. Heaven must be rejoicing.
What do we add to the cross? Our good efforts?
Our church attendance? Our zeal? Our devotions? Our tithe? Nothing can be
added. Our salvation in Jesus Christ is the cross plus nothing. We have
amassed a great debt, but it has been paid in full. We, too, can say with
Christ, "It is finished."
FATHER, IN YOUR HANDS I COMMIT MY SPIRIT.
He ended as He started, praying to His Father. The Father must be so pleased
now. The Son is finished with the assignment. He will soon be coming home. The
Son has always trusted His Father. Now He entrusts His spirit in death. He
trusts the Father to raise Him up again. Jesus chooses to die. He yields up
His Spirit, almost like a child praying, "Now I lay me down to sleep..." The
3lst Psalm was one of the first psalms Jewish children memorized. Jesus was
saying His closing prayer, quoting from that Psalm. This was the third time He
quoted Scripture from the cross, as He walked through the valley of the shadow
of death, like a man on a mission. He came to die-and now He does.
The Father is conforming His children into the
image of Christ. He would teach us to live-as Jesus died.