
Fathers and mothers want
their children to succeed. They need to find out their dreams and help them
fulfill them. Each child's dream is different. Parents lay down their lives
for their children, serving them by leading them, providing for them, guiding
them, disciplining them. The vision of that family could be the combined
vision of all the members. In the same way, leaders are called to lay down
their lives for those in the church. They help them fulfill their dreams, to
walk into their God-given calling.
Jesus said that "the Son
of Man did not come to be served but to serve and to give his life as a ransom
for many" (Matthew 20:28). He said that "the good shepherd lays down
his life for the sheep" (John 10:11).
A leader is like a coach,
wanting every team member to succeed, to contribute to the team. The focus is
not on making the coach look good; it is on making the player look good. It
can be easy for pastors to treat members as if they are there to fulfill the
vision and program of the pastor. But as one pastor put it, "Programs serve to
develop people rather than people developing programs." The goal is to see
people develop into their full potential, not programs. People who are treated
in this way, as good parents treat their children or as good coaches treat
their players, develop as God intends, and they learn to serve the family or
the team and not just their personal interests. People who feel like they are
serving the plans of the pastor and don't buy into the vision may feel used or
manipulated.
Lutheran Renewal succeeds if
and only if it helps pastors, congregational members, and churches to succeed.
It is a service organization. Conferences and congregational missions have as
their goal the building up of individuals and congregations, not the building
up of Lutheran Renewal. We are grateful for the many who support us with
prayer and finances to enable us to continue serving others. Isn't it
wonderful that we are all called to serve a higher vision than our own!?
Paul Anderson