When Love Means War
by Dr. Mark
Herringshaw
Jesus' words are inconvenient
today. As the horror of the New York and Washington attacks settles into the
cracks of our souls, one bitter question resounds: how do we love these
enemies? Since September 11th we have stumbled through cycles of crushing
emotion. On Tuesday we sat around kitchen tables or in office cubicles in
stunned disbelief. On Wednesday we stood awkwardly over our children's beds
trying to comfort their fears. On Thursday we lay awake into the night,
haunting images of falling towers and weeping widows playing in our brains. On
Friday we prayed, a nation so awkward on her knees. On Saturday we woke with
the bile of rage fuming in our bellies. War is at once everywhere and nowhere,
with each one of us a citizen soldier alongside the tireless firemen in
Manhattan and the heroic hostages who stormed the cockpit over Pennsylvania.
Right now we are looking for some stitch to seam up the tatters. And what do
we find? Jesus' words, agitating rather than comforting our souls. "Love your
enemies. Do good to those who hate you."
Our rage is real. And it is good. Anger like ours is a sign of health, for our
morally lethargic society is finally calling something absolutely evil. Some
wonder, "Is this God's judgment; has our sin removed God's protective hand?"
Perhaps. But God never begets chaos. He is, even now, using it to bring about
His better purposes, but such carnage is nothing but the spawn of hell. These
deeds were evil and we are right to respond with anger.
But right anger is a dangerous companion. It can turn and pollute our souls.
Animals lash back against assault with defensive instinct. We know this
impulse, for we are, on one level, animals. But we are not mere animals. We
are spirit creatures made in God's image, called by God to rule our instincts
with spirit. So we must distinguish righteous anger from vengeful wrath.
And we draw this line with love. Yes, love - the startling marriage of anger
and love. Which leads then to a first question: How can I love my enemies when
there is not a flicker of natural tenderness within me? In one sense this is
the essence of being Christian: we can never obey any command of Jesus. In
fact the entire Christian life is impossible. Only Jesus can be a Christian,
and only Jesus can live His will and way through me. As Pastor Morris Vaagenes
is so fond of saying: "I can't, You can, please do, thank you."
But then, a second question: how do I love my enemies… or more accurately, how
do I let Jesus love them through me? Here we find some surprises.
1. We bless them. Paul
speaks directly: "Bless those who curse you" (Romans 12:14). "To bless" is
something far more than to simply "wish the best." Covenant blessing is a
supernatural release of grace from one person to another, an unction that the
blessed one might fulfill his/her supernatural destiny. Jacob (Genesis 49)
"blessed" his twelve sons that they might each live out their intended
purposes. To bless is to literally impart upon someone the presence of God,
which will mean goodness as well as judgment. To bless our enemies is to ask
that the weight of God's fullness would be heavy upon them, and that they
would submit under the pressure of His holiness and realize the full potential
of their lives.
To bless Muslims has particular significance. For our Muslim cousins (even
those few who sanction this kind of holy war against the West) are aching for
favor from God. Their bitter hunger goes back to Genesis 21 when Ishmael, the
son of Abraham not granted the promise of covenant, was sent away to the
desert to live by his own wits and strength. In the desert Ishmael's children
remain-the Arabs of today. The good news we bring to them is that in Jesus the
same blessing of Isaac is available to all Gentiles-to Ishmaelites as well the
rest of us. What they bitterly fight to gain can be theirs by faith! So we
bless our Muslim cousins with the knowledge of the favor of God's covenant for
them.
2. We pray for them. Jesus
directs us: "Pray for those who persecute you" (Matthew 5:44). Why pray?
Prayer is an act of intentional passivity, asking God to act where we cannot.
Before Nehemiah confronted Artaxerxes, the Persian King who held the Jews in
exile, he prayed. As a result, God bent the man's intention (Nehemiah 1:10,
2:4). We might strike an enemy's physical life, but no human can reach in to
alter the heart or intent of another soul. In fact, whenever one soul tries to
bend the will of another, the effort ends in bitterness. God, however, can
mold motives and attitudes, even the intentions of our enemies. In this, our
greatest weapon against their violence is prayer for their souls.
3. We forgive them. In the
prayer Jesus taught us we utter: "Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive
those who trespass…" Forgiveness is imperative! In fact, if we do not forgive
even the worst offenses against us, we ourselves are not forgiven (Matt.
6:14). But what is genuine forgiveness? It is not a warm emotion. It is not
mustering the will to "like" our foes, or overlook their offense. Biblical
forgiveness is a legal matter, a covenant agreement. When we forgive, we
release a justified charge against another and in the process turn the
prosecution over to God. He will exact the justice. Paul says it this way:
"Leave room for God's wrath" (Romans 12:19). And so we shall. By forgiving, we
step aside to allow God to lift his leveling hand. For all His ways are just,
and unlike our imperfect vindictive forces, His wrath is strategically
redemptive.
4. We overcome them. Evil
begets more evil. But when we intervene to "overcome evil with good" (Romans
12:21), we turn their evil deeds to an end that their perpetrators did not
intend. Joseph wept before his brothers saying, "You intended to harm me, but
God intended it for good" (Genesis 50:20). Paul claims that the injustice of
imprisonment was turned to good because he redeemed the situation and made it
an opportunity to share the gospel with Roman soldiers (Philippians 1:12). But
how is this love for our enemies? When we do good in the face of evil, we stop
some of the effects of wickedness. We cover some of their guilt and lessen
their eternal accountability for havoc wrought in God's order. The heroic
deeds of firemen, the blood donated, and the financial gifts to families have
birthed good in the world that was not here before September 11th. But heroic
love intended for victims turns out, ironically, to be love for the terrorists
as well, for it dims their shame.
5. We stop them. Love has
many faces. And there are times when we must lift a hand and halt the evil.
Revenge belongs to God (Romans 12:19). Still, at times we must institute force
to stop the chaos of wickedness. Jesus himself was not above using force in
His ministry. He did so in the temple when He turned over the tables of usury
(Luke 19:42). This proves true, even if that force involves death. In the
original language the commandment is "thou shalt not murder," not "thou shalt
not kill." Rev. Dietrich Bonhoeffer made a choice to join an assassination
plot against Hitler, and he called it love, love for the victims but also for
Hitler himself. How? C.S. Lewis, echoing St. Augustine who wrote of "just war"
says that love must sometimes act forcefully. If we believe in an eternal
judgment, then stopping an evil person, even by killing him, can be merciful,
for it stops him from further polluting the world and thus incurring darker
damnation upon himself and those he influences. Worse things than death can
happen to a human soul.
All of this is starkly relevant for us today. We are a nation at war. But we
are not the first to face this question of right violent resistance. Every
generation of followers of Jesus has wrestled with the reality-some of you in
the Second World War, in Korea, in Vietnam, in the Gulf, or as police officers
or reservists today. Our purpose, as Christian-Americans is: 1) to support our
government, and 2) to stand as a prophetic voice reminding our government of
the love and mercies of God. Even in the midst of military fury we must insist
that actions be driven not by vengeful wrath, but by aggressive, persistent,
creative love-love in forms that on the surface may not look familiar, but are
nonetheless vigilant mercies.
Dr. Mark Herringshaw is the Senior Pastor at Vision of Glory Lutheran
Church in Plymouth, MN. Mark and his wife, Jill, live in Vadnais Heights, MN
with their four children.