
November
2003
Page 1 -
Nobody Ever Told Me
by
Jack Deere
Page 2 -
A Tale of Three Countries
by Paul Anderson
Page 3
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Stewardship Strategies For
Effective Christian Giving
by Orlando Logelin
Page 4 - The
Not-So-Perfect Storm
by Paul Anderson
The Not-So-Perfect
Storm
by Paul Anderson
All those who
will be used by God will encounter storms. They threaten our physical,
emotional, or spiritual well-being, because they are more powerful than we
are. Storms are a fact of life; they come unannounced, and they are as sure as
they are unpredictable. Life isn't the smooth ride I thought it was going to
be. So enjoy the calm weather, but anticipate storms.
Jesus had plans
to use His disciples powerfully, so He gave them tests. Two of them took place
on the center of the lake that many of them knew so well. One was an endurance
test (Matt.14, Mk.6, Jn.6); the other was a storm of life-threatening
proportion (Matt.8, Mk.4, Lk.8). Jesus was praying for them in the mountains
above the lake in one and was asleep in the boat for the other.
Some storms
find their source in God, some in the enemy. Some are the result of my own
decisions, and others come simply from being in the human family. Regardless
of the source, God can use storms to take us from security to insecurity so
that we might find new security in Him. The greatest place of rest is found
when our ultimate support system is God Himself. He removes secondary crutches
so that we are thrown upon Him in times of weakness.
Because of the
intensity of storms, they have the power to change us and to bring us to a new
level of faith. But they also have the power to disrupt and defeat us. The
storms the disciples encountered on the Sea of Galilee caused them first to
panic, then to see the Lord in a deeper way. Storms force us into making
decisions, like "Shall I trust in the Lord here?" I must decide, "Who is
greater, the storm or God?"
Peter had a
moment when he was walking on top of the storm. He had a glimpse at victory
before he gave in to fear. When Peter looked back on the event, he could say,
"Hey, I walked on water. It worked, at least for a while." We need the courage
to get out of the boat, not to play it safe. This storm was a defining event
for all of the disciples but especially for Peter because of his willingness
to step out. Learn to take appropriate risks in the middle of the storm. As
Winston Churchill said, "Failure is not final; courage is what counts." If we
think that we can avoid storms, we will cease to lead-and eventually cease to
live. We must learn to fear God more than we fear the storm. The disciples
first panicked. Then when they discovered that Jesus was in control over the
waves, they relocated their fear.
The greater the
leader, the greater the storm. Paul wrote, "Three times I was beaten with
rods, once I was stoned, three times I was shipwrecked." He was often "in
danger in the city, in danger in the country, in danger at sea" (2
Cor.11:25,26). And the greater the storm, the greater the potential for
influence. As is the storm, so is the grace of God to endure it and grow from
it.
When confronted
by a storm, we might want to ask some questions, like, "Did I bring this on?"
If so, repentance would be the quickest way to dispel the storm. The reluctant
prophet Jonah knew that the storm on his ship was the result of his own doing.
Like Jesus years later, Jonah was asleep, but not for the same reason; he was
running, not resting. Throwing cargo overboard didn't solve the problem;
tossing the prophet over did. The sad truth is that our disobedience brings
storms into the lives of those who are close to us. Ask the children of an
alcoholic or the parents of a teenage rebel. Jonah acknowledged, "I know
that it is my fault that this great storm has come upon you"(v.12).
Other
questions: Is God sending the storm to guide me? Is He using it to change my
direction? Or is He adjusting something internal, like my faith quotient? Is
God answering my prayer to grow in reliance upon Him? Is He allowing me to be
threatened so that I see His power in the midst of the tempest? Perhaps I
won't be able to sort out such questions in the middle of a battle, but it is
always appropriate to trust in God regardless of the source.
Some storms
happen because we have made a series of wrong decisions and have opened the
door for Satan to influence our situation. If we give the enemy room, he will
take it every time. Jesus said on the evening before the crucifixion, the
stormiest time in His life, that "the prince of this world is coming. He
has no hold on me" (Jn.14:30).
Paul was caught
in a storm that was the result of a bad decision by the ship's pilot. He had
misjudged a calm sea as an indication to leave port. God spoke in the middle
of the storm and said, "Do not be afraid, Paul. You must stand trial before
Caesar" (Acts 27:24). It is often difficult to hear from God when the
waves are pounding, but when we can, it will diminish our anxiety. And the
courage that came to Paul was transmitted to those traveling with him. God
will sometimes allow us to go through storms so that we can bring hope to
others.
The two storms
the disciples encountered were not the result of disobedience. They were part
of God's training program to equip them for storms down the road. In that
case, we should ask if God has spoken anything to us about the storm. Jesus
had sent the disciples away in the boat. He had told them to cross over to the
other side, so they were following orders. It was a test of endurance and
faith, not a result of disobedience. It might help us if God said, "This is a
test; this is only a test."
Jesus had
tested the disciples moments before when He fed the five thousand. He knew
what He was going to do. He wanted to see if they knew, which they didn't.
They took His test and calculated how they would solve the dilemma with human
resources. They discovered that they were pitifully short of supplies, but it
led them to frustration, not faith. God frustrates us so we will say, "I
can't-but You can?" Often we only say, "I can't."
So how can
we ride out a storm?
Don't
make life decisions in the midst of a storm. Some pastors decide to
leave a church during a fight. They should at least stick it out and see if
matters settle. Every church goes through storms. The will of God should drive
us, not the weather. Some couples decide to divorce following family trials,
such as the loss of a child. At a time when they need peace the most, they
prolong the storm through poor decisions.
Hang on.
Storms build endurance. The disciples had been rowing against the wind for
most of the night. Sometimes that is all we can do-just ride out the storm
with whatever strength we have-and keep on rowing. Panic causes us to change
our strategy or our direction or to make presumptuous decisions or to lose our
focus. Sometimes what we need is not progress but patience.
Let the
storm address your inadequacy. Some people are too insecure to admit
the power of the storm. Jesus told His disciples in the garden about the
intensity of the battle He was facing and acknowledged, "My soul is
overwhelmed with sorrow to the point of death" (Matt. 26:38). They had learned
to insulate themselves from the impact of conflict through positive self-talk.
The purpose of some storms is simply to help us declare our inadequacy so we
can turn to God in dependence and faith. Underestimating the power of a
tornado may look godly, but in effect it is religious flesh at work, not true
faith, and the damage of the storm will be greater because of our
unwillingness to be transparent in the face of it. Vulnerability releases
grace, because we acknowledge our need for one another and for God.
Jesus expects
us to trust Him regardless of the storm. The disciples were experienced
fishermen who knew the sea. And yet they thought they were going under. Jesus
didn't; He would have slept through it if the disciples had not awakened Him.
When He got up, He first rebuked the wind; then He rebuked the disciples for
their lack of faith. It is possible to trust in the Lord while going through
life-threatening storms, and that is God's expectation for us and, therefore,
His grace-provision to us.
Storms often
cause people to lose faith rather than to grow in it. They blame God for the
loss brought on by the storm rather than trusting God to make it up to them.
Storms often bring loss, but even storms can help us to focus more on God
Himself. And yet when the loss is someone rather than something, it is
especially difficult.
When Karalee
lost her husband at forty-five, it was an unexpected and unanticipated loss.
He was crushed by a truck in a freak accident at work, and their solid
marriage was suddenly over. And yet the peace of God swept over her moments
after the loss. The loss would be horrendous, but she would go through this
terrible storm with God, not without Him. And she did. Now she is training to
be a chaplain. She is a courageous woman who found that God was with her in
the storm.
Try picturing
Jesus praying for you during your next storm as He did for the disciples from
the nearby mountain. Mark writes that "He saw the disciples straining at
the oars, because the wind was against them" (6:48). When you are tossing
and turning, not making headway, when the problem is not yielding a solution,
imagine Jesus nearby in prayer. It might get you through. He knows how to
pray. It might not be "the perfect storm," but God can use it to perfect you!
Realizing that
storms will come keep us from getting surprised by trials. It wouldn't hurt to
ask ourselves, "What if I lost my job? What if I failed rather than succeeded?
What if my health deteriorated?" Habakkuk tried this out and decided that the
sovereign was greater than all his "what ifs" (3:17-19). We don't pray for
storms-but we do prepare for them.
You might want
to pray something like this: "Dear Father, I would not have chosen this
storm. It is throwing me off balance. It makes me fearful and disoriented. And
yet I trust You for the outcome. I know that You are powerful and that You are
good. I don't doubt Your love in the midst of this trial. I see You riding
over the storm. What is threatening me is not threatening You, so I choose to
believe in You. Please comfort and reassure me in my anxiety. Keep me from
panicking and making wrong decisions. I would rather be insecure in Your will
than secure without You. In Jesus' name. Amen."